Okay, honestly, for the month of January is so far. so good. Heh,I really like that month because it's the start of year. (well who doesn't love the beginnings of the year?)
Anyway, February have finally come. And what comes to my mind when it comes to February? Reunion. What's after that? Birthday. Yeah,reunion and birthday. I know it's weird that the first 2 things that comes to mind but yeah, that comes to my mind. And what comes after that? Chalet. Yeah, I know I'm a weirdo thinking of such stuffs but that's what I had in my mind people. Why does that comes to my mind? Because my first 2 weeks of February is packed with so many things.(yeah, I'm a busy women lately but still doesn't have a job. MY OH MYYYYYY)
And I don't have the time to celebrate Valentine's Day. No wait, actually I can't celebrate it because it's against my religion to celebrate it (because I'm a Muslim that's why I can't celebrate okay people. Please don't get misunderstood about it.) What's the best is that I don't have a boyfriend, so why the hell should I celebrate Valentine's Day. And furthermore, I think celebrating it at just 1 day, being as romantic as you can on that day is not worth it. Why would I say that? Well, this is going to hurt some people, so be prepared.
Now, firstly, why must you be as romantic as you can on that day when you can actually be as romantic as you can every single day with your other half? Is there like a 'timing' for you guys to be as romantic as you can and then the next moment you decided not to be as romantic as you can? No right? So yeah, that's the first thought that comes to my mind.
Secondly, let's say that you guys fought okay. You guys didn't talk & contact each other because you guys are mad. Then comes Valentine's Day and you guys decides to be as romantic, cheesy as you guys can on that day.(Whatever that you guys can do okay. I don't have a boyfriend for 5 long years so I don't know what you guys are capable of being so romantic okay.) Then after that day, you guys are back to your 'war', not talking and contacting each other. Now tell me, is it worth to celebrate it with your other half on that day by pushing all those problems aside for a day and then those problems come back to you guys the very next day. No right?
You guys must be wondering, why am I saying this? Right? Here's my reason. Because I've seen it with my own eyes that there are couples who did this just for the sake,"Oh it's Valentine's Day. I should get something for my boyfriend/girlfriend. Maybe a Pandora for her/maybe a Nike shoe for him"". But actually they are fighting with each other, having a huge problem in their relationship. So is it worth to celebrate your Valentine's Day just because it's VALENTINE'S DAY? Well I hope not. Now, that's my real reason for why Valentine's Day shouldn't be celebrate for just 1 freaking day. If possible, it should be ALL DAY,EVERYDAY.
And here's something for my future boyfriend,
Dear my dear future boyfriend, I really hope that you can be as romantic as you want, as cheesy as you want till I get sick of it(hehe). And if we fought, please make sure that we settle that freaking problem on the spot because I can't help it but I will be feeling so super sad and uneasy if we didn't settle those problems. And lastly. I'm hoping that you my future boyfriend (and also who's going to be my other half soon in the future) that you will not stop loving me, appreciate me and accept all of my flaws, just like how i accept you just the way you are. And if it's possible, i really hope that you can quit smoking some day because you know how sensitive my nose is. With that, thank you & I love you.(HAHAHA!)
